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DeadAimz

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just kind of wanna spill my thoughts here. i have a boyfriend, and he knows my struggles he knows i cry everyday. he’s the only person i have LITERALLY i do not have a single friend or anything. he used to be so sweet and loving but now i’m here thinking i’m a burden. for days on end he’d spend all night with his guy friend and would leave me alone knowing how i get. he said that recently he’s going to try and care for me more and be there more for me but he’s still spending all his time gaming with his friend and i game too but he hardly ever asks to play with me he’ll only speak to me vocally when we ft at night. i’ve never heard him laugh with me the way he does with friends and i just feel so alone everyday i used to not feel this the first lot of months we were together. is this normal? am i just being selfish? he’s so different now
 
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I’m sorry you’re going through that. I don’t think your being selfish for seeking attention from your s.o that you feel they’ve stopped showing to you as much. It’s something you’d have to talk about it with them as to why, maybe he’s going through something also and doesn’t want to burden you? It’s not something I can speculate but it seems effective communication ( honest talk about both your feelings and why and all that) between you could be helpful
 
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I’m sorry you’re going through that. I don’t think your being selfish for seeking attention from your s.o that you feel they’ve stopped showing to you as much. It’s something you’d have to talk about it with them as to why, maybe he’s going through something also and doesn’t want to burden you? It’s not something I can speculate but it seems effective communication ( honest talk about both your feelings and why and all that) between you could be helpful
yeah we had a big convo about it and he said he’ll try to care about me more. but i don’t know i just always feel like 2nd best. he knows that. thank you for taking the time to write to me!
 
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Communication is key, barring that id suggest trying to branch out and make friends with people
 
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You're his Girl-friend, he knows better which is better? don't he?, maybe he doesn't know, you'd help him out in winning The game.
 
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