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That’s true. I’ll be dead so it wouldn’t really matter. It won’t matter what I look like before I ctb and it won’t matter whatever happens to my body afterwardsNot sure it matter you know because your dead. I guess I won't want my family to go through that but its lowkey non of my business by that point
that makes perfect sense.Not sure it matter you know because your dead. I guess I won't want my family to go through that but its lowkey non of my business by that point
It's just that it's actually a body I love. Something I feel has been there for me in spite of not getting the best treatment. Strong legs and strong heart. Very pretty hands. It's served me well, as much as it could under the circumstances.Ah, so there's some vanity there after all. Don't mean to provoke.
This is too true it actually kind of hurts to know for me, for some reason. I have seen people treat the dead pretty badly. Not caring in the least...Unless it's your family or friends it will be some heartless unfeeling goons. Look at the guy who shot his head off. No one even bothered to go over to what was left of him. They didn't care. Thats what it will be to them. Look as pretty as you want no one will care. Their job is to scoop up a corpse and cart it to the morgue to a freezer.
Well that's a pretty cool way to look at it. Respect.It's just that it's actually a body I love. Something I feel has been there for me in spite of not getting the best treatment. Strong legs and strong heart. Very pretty hands. It's served me well, as much as it could under the circumstances.
In olden times, it was the family that took care of the body, and they did it with respect usually. Washing it and put the best clothes on it and displayed it briefly nicely laid out. It was one of their own and they handled it with love.Well that's a pretty cool way to look at it. Respect.
As someone who’s performed postmortem care quite a few times, those in the profession are not disgusted by it, don’t worry.I don’t care much how my hair, beard and body hair are going to look but I will try to be clean and wear a pleasing t-shirt and boxer. But I do still think ppl will be disgusted especially those involving in autopsy since they will see and touch my naked body. I worry about this.
I know what decomposition does, and I still want to feel pretty lolI'm sure if you knew what happens to corpses you wouldn't bother to pretty yourselves up. You are going to look ghastly especially if they autopsy you. They slice you up like a Thanksgiving turkey.
If you get taken to a funeral home it is there that they paint your face, arrange your hair or put a wig on you and dress you. They do a remarkable job much of the time, better than you can do even.
But putrifaction quickly sets in, so you won't stay looking good for long.
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