[Discussion] How would you describe the feeling of sex?

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nigelhernandez

nigelhernandez

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To me it would be like having a massive itch in a part of your body and scratching it. You can scratch the itch yourself (masturbation) which feels good or you can get it scratched by an attractive person which would be more erotic
 
SuiSqueeze92

SuiSqueeze92

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Get drunk and hold your piss as long as you can... then take said piss :)
 
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SpareWheel

SpareWheel

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Sex - a nice release of built up tension. Like scratching your itchy bum that's been bothering you all day but you had to wait til you're away from people before having a good old scratch.

Making love - Nirvana.
 
Myforevercharlie

Myforevercharlie

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In my case often an awkward thing. Maybe im an hopeless romantic and expect to much ( i had a romance novel addiction in my teens), most man (sorry) are going way to fast. I can't do that.
So, sex.. Still waiting for that "wow" moment.
 
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Pryras

Pryras

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I don’t know how to put it into words exactly, but for someone who used to have an active sex life, it took a huge emotional toll on me. I could go my life without it and I’d be better off.

Never thought I’d have a problem with it but as time passes, intimacy brings on its own issues. Questions of self worth and respect since i was essentially nothing more than what I could give to someone else.
 
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a.n.kirillov

a.n.kirillov

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moonchild

moonchild

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In my case often an awkward thing. Maybe im an hopeless romantic and expect to much ( i had a romance novel addiction in my teens), most man (sorry) are going way to fast. I can't do that.
So, sex.. Still waiting for that "wow" moment.
I can relate to this. I used to read a lot of fanfiction as a teenager, and I think that ruined sex for me. Going into something with sky high and completely unrealistic expectations is bound to be a bad experience. But also the sex I've had has been kind of meh and awkward, even by normal standards, more like a chore than anything else. I don't mind going without it.
 
Mr2005

Mr2005

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I should've got into porn. Not like I've done anything else with my life. Just fucking 24/7 numbs the pain. I now belong in the dirty old men category. I really am ancient. I don't remember them all being teenagers when I was. They're just kids. Or are they? Who knows? Kill me now, you have my consent
 
Myforevercharlie

Myforevercharlie

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I should've got into porn. Not like I've done anything else with my life. Just fucking 24/7 numbs the pain. I now belong in the dirty old men category. I really am ancient. I don't remember them all being teenagers when I was. They're just kids. Or are they? Who knows? Kill me now, you have my consent
You are ancient? What makes that out of me??
 
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terry_a_davis

terry_a_davis

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If you've masturbated OP then the orgasm from sex is very similar but sometimes a bit more intense. Also I found with sex you enjoy the whole process more leading up to orgasm, not just the orgasm. It's a great feeling tbh especially when you're with someone you find attractive and care about.
 
Fragile

Fragile

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uncomfortable, brings back traumatic memories and is definitely not something i need in my life.