[Discussion] Does my voice sound effeminate?

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I've been told by various people that my voice/accent sounds like that of a pedophile or gay person...lol. That doesn't sound good. I'm a 21yr old black guy and not the most masculine but not feminine either.

Also what accent does it sound like?

Who told you that you sound like a pedophile?!? That's such a strange thing to say, pedophiles don't have a specific voice (at least that I'm aware of). Same with gay people...I suppose there's the stereotypical camp affectation associated with gay men, but not all gay people sound like that and hetero people can also be camp.

You sound fine, in some bits I can hear a bit of Donald Duck, sorry if it's harsh, it's just the way you pronounced "actually" "here" "Rachel Fleming" "year" which reminded me of watching the cartoon when I was young
 
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Who told you that you sound like a pedophile?!? That's such a strange thing to say, pedophiles don't have a specific voice (at least that I'm aware of). Same with gay people...I suppose there's the stereotypical camp affectation associated with gay men, but not all gay people sound like that and hetero people can also be camp.

You sound fine, in some bits I can hear a bit of Donald Duck, sorry if it's harsh, it's just the way you pronounced "actually" "here" "Rachel Fleming" "year" which reminded me of watching the cartoon when I was young
True but my mother said that my voice sounded like the economist Max Keiser

 
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True but my mother said that my voice sounded like the economist Max Keiser

Ehm, what the hell have I just watched?!? I don't think you sound like anyone on this video. May I ask why you're worried about your voice? How many people told you that you sound like a pedophile??



Thank you ~
You sound lovely, but it also sounds like you're trying to make your voice much deeper than it naturally is, especially at the beginning of the registration when it's at its deepest. A bit like a male version of Elizabeth Holmes

 
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@HelensNepenthe please share some of your manliness !
(OP : your voice is perfectly fine to my ears)
 
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Actually you kind of sound like you have a nasal/sinus blockage. You totally sound like an economist.
 
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@nigelhernandez - a "man"s voice ..

Like WHOA ! Blown away. I’m searching for an equivalent but can’t find.

Hum, the closest androgenic mirror would be


Breathy voices are sexy
 
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Like WHOA ! Blown away. I’m searching for an equivalent but can’t find.

Hum, the closest androgenic mirror would be


Breathy voices are sexy
i love her but she's a "woman" lol
lets just leave it to pro ho :love: gurls boiz and other toyzzzz :devil:
 
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No no, I disagree. Last time I checked ...errr ;) (lacking sleep)
The borders melt in this topic !



PS : I’m a “tad“ asthmatic (ahem), it can be heard at times when I don’t hold notes or it becomes trembling. Anyway, I’m sort of neutral about my voice. I neither like it or dislike it, but not complexed - apologies for the ears’ bleed, I never sing, but I prefer it than to speak (darker tone, not headed) ...which I do more, riiight

edit : haha your tastes are heteroclite ! Correct, such a diva... don’t bring drama Madame ! but bring high heels
 
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No no, I disagree. Last time I checked ...errr ;) (lacking sleep)
The borders melt in this topic !



PS : I’m a “tad“ asthmatic (ahem), it can be heard at times when I don’t hold notes or it becomes trembling. Anyway, I’m sort of neutral about my voice. I neither like it or dislike it, but not complexed - apologies for the ears’ bleed, I never sing, but I prefer it than to speak (darker tone, not headed).

edit : haha your tastes are heteroclite ! Right, such a diva... don’t bring drama Madame ! but bring high heels
oh gods..im also sleep deprived .. love your cheeky vids and voice baba! :heart:
who's who in da zoo? gonna pm u a - lol how tf do u quote here?? ffs
 
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I've been told by various people that my voice/accent sounds like that of a pedophile or gay person...lol. That doesn't sound good. I'm a 21yr old black guy and not the most masculine but not feminine either.

Also what accent does it sound like?

Well you definitely don't sound black lmao. Nothing wrong with your voice. I don't notice much of an accent, but I can only call out a handful of accents by state
 
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oh gods..im also sleep deprived .. love your cheeky vids and voice baba! :heart:
who's who in da zoo? gonna pm u a - lol how tf do u quote here?? ffs
thank you. I “let go”
who’s who in da zoo ? lol you probably can teach me english : twin boy & girl !
I’m lagging with my PMs :[ I own answers to like 3 people ...feeling guilty. After the queue, let’s do it. Down to. NN (vampire day here)
 
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Since we are now talking about androgynous voices, I feel like mine is pretty much in the middle, what do you reckon?

Mmm, oops, I can't seem to attach a audio file, how do you do it?!?
 
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Okay the I can't upload a straight mp3 file is fucking annoying..... GRAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH !
I wanted the green buttony thing but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo
everything has to be geared toward complicating a fucking orgasm and i should go to sleep, now.
 
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Go to the website vocaroo.com and record or upload
Thanks for the tip, but it doesn't let me upload the mp3 file on the forum; I can only find "insert image", "insert video" or "attach files" and none of them works with mp3 files. I feel like it's super easy, but I'm somehow missing how to do it
I still don't have a clue how to upload an audio file, I had to convert it to video to work.

Anyway, what do you folks think about my voice?
 

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Thanks for the tip, but it doesn't let me upload the mp3 file on the forum; I can only find "insert image", "insert video" or "attach files" and none of them works with mp3 files. I feel like it's super easy, but I'm somehow missing how to do it
I still don't have a clue how to upload an audio file, I had to convert it to video to work.

Anyway, what do you folks think about my voice?
Smooth like butter. You sound fancy and gentle. You could talk my ear off;)
 
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Thanks for the lovely comments....to be honest, I was wondering if I sounded more male, female or androgynous, what do you reckon?

You sound young, much younger than a 33 years old. It's a gentle and calming voice. I like it!
Thanks! apparently I also look younger, but that's very common amongst trans/queer people

Smooth like butter. You sound fancy and gentle. You could talk my ear off;)
aww, cheers <3

All these voice recordings are oddly satisfying ! :pfff::pfff:
Post yours too, if you're in the mood x
 
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All interesting voices.
@nigelhernandez you sound like a well educated (i guess trying to say nerdy, but in a nice way) male but i agree, shy and nervous sounding.
@HelensNepenthe i expected you to be a woman so that shocked me. Should be on radio
@enjolras beautiful
@pete_x interesting song normal voice
@Cloudy soothing not masculine not feminine but can tell you’re a male
@Compodulator love the accent you sound like an actor
@Pryras sound Canadian normal female voice
 
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My tone of voice is definately camp and i’m proud of that. Add to that an array of florid gestures and mannerisms and I’m ready to go. Camp is oftentimes unfairly associated with gender preference, when it is actually a form of dandyism. Some think I am potentially trans-leaning; nothing could be further from the truth. Oh, my dears! I could never envision parting with my junk...or should I say “junque?
 
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All interesting voices.
@Cloudy soothing not masculine not feminine but can tell you’re a male
I'm not male though ;)

My tone of voice is definately camp and i’m proud of that. (,,,) Some think I am potentially trans-leaning; nothing could be further from the truth. Oh, my dears! I could never envision parting with my junk...or should I say “junque?
Love me some camp!
Not all trans people need/want to part with their junk though, it's a common misconception
 
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I'm not male though ;)
Well shit I’m sorry. Guess I’m not good at the voice game. FWIW i have been called sir over the phone and had to say, um no.....
 
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Well shit I’m sorry. Guess I’m not good at the voice game. FWIW i have been called sir over the phone and had to say, um no.....
It's ok, my voice often passes as male and I don't mind, no need to apologise.
There's a blind lady who lives in my building and she's so sure that I'm a guy that I never had the heart of correcting her.
I'm non binary AFAB (assigned female at birth) and my pronouns are they them, but there's no neutral in Italian so I use masculine ones.
That's also one of the reasons why I was so curious to know what people thought about what sex my voice sounds like without looking at me
 
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Who, dahling, would ever want to part with their junque to begin with?